Define Your Circle
Define your standards, define your priorities, and define your circle.There is nothing wrong with choosing what fits your vibe and whom to have around you. Be selective, be picky.
If you don't like how people dress or behave in a certain way, leave them. Your standards matter more.
IIf you see people who are friends to all, remember they're friends to none. Aristotle said this, not me.
If you don't want to be just an option, remove those who have too many options.
If you don't want to mingle with people who can hop in for a ride with anyone, just remove them.
Want no manipulation? Remove those who tell selective stories.
What echoes around you will become your reality. You are what you consume. You are what you surround yourself with.
Want a calm, happy work environment? Remove those complaining, gossiping colleagues from your circle. Absorb those who make work feel easy and happy.
Want more ideas? Mingle with people who talk about ideas. Want to bother less about others? Remove those who only talk about others.
Feeling undervalued at work? Go to another company. If a company tries to raise your salary just to stop you from leaving, that place will never value you in time—leave it.
Want to grow and have a better mind space? Feel like social media is draining you by constantly bombarding you with comparison, rage baits, brain rot? Take a break, uninstall, unfollow, do whatever is necessary to get your control back.
Say no, make yourself not always available.
Your peace matters more than anything. If you don't value your own boundaries, who will value them? You can define your standards. You don't need permission from anybody to choose your people, your vibe, your peace, or You.